Are divorced fathers mere ATMs?

Dr. Helen Smith, an outstanding advocate for men having equal rights and responsibilities to women, links to a piece written by a divorced mom in Fathers and Families, a Massachusetts publication that has the following vision: 

• Children are happier and more successful because their loving bonds are protected after parental separation or divorce:
  
  
• Children have a natural right to be nurtured and guided by both parents:
  
  
• Society treats fathers and mothers as equally important to the well-being of their children:
  
  
• Shared parenting after separation or divorce is the norm:
  
  
• The courts arrange finances after separation or divorce so that both mothers and fathers can afford to house and care for their children and themselves: and
  

• Our society understands and respects the essential role of fathers.

I really appreciated women who care enough about children to advocate for fathers remaining actively involved in decision-making, nurturing, and parenting children.