Self-absorption, or accepting God's grace?

Mushroom writes at Fungle Jungle,

I think it possible for a soul to resist the love and grace of God, to be so self-absorbed as to consign itself eternally to the fires of hell. But I also think it is possible for any soul, anywhere, anytime to respond to the Holy Spirit’s call, to recognize and respond positively to God’s offer of reconciliation. In the end, those separated from a loving, forgiving, compassionate God will have no one to blame except themselves, while those who have accepted the gift will have no one to thank and praise but Christ alone.

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