This blog is looking for wisdom, to have and to share. It is also looking for other rare character traits like good humor, courage, and honor. It is not an easy road, because all of us fall short. But God is love, forgiveness and grace. Those who believe in Him and repent of their sins have the promise of His Holy Spirit to guide us and show us the Way.
Wednesday, September 27, 2006
Girl Will Be Flown to Saint Anthony's Central Hospital in Denver
One person heard from a friend who was listening to the SWAT radio. The friend told him that the perpetrator shot the girl, and that the law enforcement officers shot the perp.
Update: A Person Has Been Taken Out Of The School On A Stretcher
Television station KUSA is reporting that one girl has been shot, and that the hostage situation has ended. The gunman has been captured. One girl in critical condition, and the other girl not injured.
Update: Flight For Life Helicopter Is Firing Up Its Engines
A stretcher was carried into the school, and the helicopter has fired up its engines.
Update
The man is saying that he has a bomb in his backpack. The bomb squad and SWAT team is on the scene. There is no confirmation by law enforcement of the earlier report that it may be a custody dispute.
Update: The Man's Identity is Not Known to Law Enforcement
Law enforcement has no information about the man! They have not established "reliable" communication with him. The school is Platte Canyon High School. It is just outside the mountain town of Bailey, Colorado. It is on Highway 285. My wife and children are due to come back home on that highway later today from a trip to Durango in southwest Colorado. I stayed home with the babies, because they had scheduled visits with their biological parents.
There is no report that anyone has been shot. There were originally six hostages, and now there are two. Law enforcement is interviewing the four hostages who have been released. No reported injuries. Police spokeswoman says "We'd like to know what he wants." Many of the first responders were also first responders at Columbine.
There is no report that anyone has been shot. There were originally six hostages, and now there are two. Law enforcement is interviewing the four hostages who have been released. No reported injuries. Police spokeswoman says "We'd like to know what he wants." Many of the first responders were also first responders at Columbine.
In Progress: A School Shooting and Hostages Taken
There is a school shooting and hostage situation going on at a school in the mountains just west of the Denver metro area. A thirty-five-year-old man came into the high school armed with a gun and perhaps a bomb. He took five or six hostages, and reportedly released all but two high school girls. The man apparently made some demands of a teacher. When those demands were refused, he fired a shot or some shots. The two girls may be related to the man, and it may be a custody dispute situation.
Monday, September 25, 2006
The Importance Of a Good Infancy
Seeing former President Clinton losing it with Chris Wallace Sunday reminds me of the importance of infancy.
Presently we are caring for two foster children. One will be one-year-old on October 4, and the other will be one-year-old on October 29. Both are girls. The latter has been with us since March 3, and is strongly bonded to all members of our family. She starts each day with excited anticipation, knowing that there will be much to explore and lots of fun all day long. She did not come to us that way. She came into foster care because her biological father beat up her biological mother, who had a history of meth abuse. There are two older sisters who have mostly grown up in foster care. She was easily frightened by any loud noise. She often looked stressed. Now she seems to have undergone a complete rewiring, with the frontal part of the brain predominating over the brain stem of raw emotion. She knows she can trust us. She knows we love her.
That has not yet happened for our other foster daughter. We first got her when her mother broke her leg in February. We had her only a few days in February, because Human Services found a relative who said she could care for her. In June that relative said she could no longer care for her, and she came back to live with us. The mother still has a criminal case pending on the broken leg. She is also ready to give birth to her second child. The Human Services people want to see how she does with the new baby before deciding to return our foster daughter to the mom.
Unlike our other foster daughter who has been with us almost seven months, the second one wakes up each morning expecting the worst. Her favorite thing to do is to yell loudly, expressing displeasure much like former President Clinton did with Chris Wallace. She yells if we have to leave the room to answer a phone. She yells if we set her down to fold laundry. She yells if breakfast, lunch, or dinner is finished. She is grossly overweight. We believe the mom and the relative constantly gave her food to mollify her discontent. The mom always urges me to give her a bottle on the ride back to our home after a visit, so I no longer even bring a bottle. Mom and the relatives told us she would never crawl, because nobody in their family had ever crawled. After much perseverance on the part of some very good physical and occupational therapists, ignoring her deafening screams, she now crawls. Mostly she prefers not to move around much, preferring instead to yell at those of us who do. However, when I endeavor to change her poopy diaper, she kicks and squirms and tries to crawl away, laughing with great pleasure at the inconvenience she is causing me. We shall continue to greet her each morning with enthusiam and happy faces, hoping to get that rewiring started.
Presently we are caring for two foster children. One will be one-year-old on October 4, and the other will be one-year-old on October 29. Both are girls. The latter has been with us since March 3, and is strongly bonded to all members of our family. She starts each day with excited anticipation, knowing that there will be much to explore and lots of fun all day long. She did not come to us that way. She came into foster care because her biological father beat up her biological mother, who had a history of meth abuse. There are two older sisters who have mostly grown up in foster care. She was easily frightened by any loud noise. She often looked stressed. Now she seems to have undergone a complete rewiring, with the frontal part of the brain predominating over the brain stem of raw emotion. She knows she can trust us. She knows we love her.
That has not yet happened for our other foster daughter. We first got her when her mother broke her leg in February. We had her only a few days in February, because Human Services found a relative who said she could care for her. In June that relative said she could no longer care for her, and she came back to live with us. The mother still has a criminal case pending on the broken leg. She is also ready to give birth to her second child. The Human Services people want to see how she does with the new baby before deciding to return our foster daughter to the mom.
Unlike our other foster daughter who has been with us almost seven months, the second one wakes up each morning expecting the worst. Her favorite thing to do is to yell loudly, expressing displeasure much like former President Clinton did with Chris Wallace. She yells if we have to leave the room to answer a phone. She yells if we set her down to fold laundry. She yells if breakfast, lunch, or dinner is finished. She is grossly overweight. We believe the mom and the relative constantly gave her food to mollify her discontent. The mom always urges me to give her a bottle on the ride back to our home after a visit, so I no longer even bring a bottle. Mom and the relatives told us she would never crawl, because nobody in their family had ever crawled. After much perseverance on the part of some very good physical and occupational therapists, ignoring her deafening screams, she now crawls. Mostly she prefers not to move around much, preferring instead to yell at those of us who do. However, when I endeavor to change her poopy diaper, she kicks and squirms and tries to crawl away, laughing with great pleasure at the inconvenience she is causing me. We shall continue to greet her each morning with enthusiam and happy faces, hoping to get that rewiring started.
Saturday, September 23, 2006
Boycott Citgo! (And Maybe Peanuts, Too, While We Are At It)
There is something we all can do to let Hugo Chavez know we listened to his speech at the United Nations. We can drive right past our usual 7/11 stop, and leave the Citgo gas pumps alone. Very alone. Citgo uses Venezuelan oil to make its gasoline. Although I am certain he will still find a way get his oil on the market, at least this will teach 7/11 and Chavez that we are listening, and that we know that real power is with the average person, which is the basis of our freedom and liberty. The people of Venezuela do not know freedom and liberty, despite what Jimmy Carter implied when he hurriedly certified the Chavez election. Maybe peanuts should be on the boycott list, too?
Thursday, September 21, 2006
Ratting on Oneself

Today our two-year-old came up to me and said "Nene said fucking! See, she said it again!" Nene is the nickname some have given our two-year-old. The best reply I could give her was to say, "If people hear you say that word, they will think you do not have any parents." Then, when I thought about it, I realized that people may think she does have parents, and that might be where she heard the word, instead of from her three teenage siblings.
Two of the Best Writers in the Blogosphere Raise Questions About Some Bishops of the Catholic Church
Two of the blogosphere's most dedicated and inspiring Catholics are raising questions about the roles being played by some Bishops of the Catholic Church. Boinkie has some pointed things to say about the Bishops of New Zealand, while the Anchoress wonders about the Bishops in the United States.
Tuesday, September 12, 2006
What Issues Are Most Important?
One of the most interesting political questions in the next year or so will be whom the Republicans choose as their candidate for President in 2008. Rudy Giuliani has appeal because he is a fiscal conservative and is very tough on fighting crime and terror. Can the libertarian and social conservative wings of the party rally around this man? It seems to me that he appeals more to the former.
What compromises will each of these two major factions be willing to make in order to keep the party in the majority? Maybe the Democrats will nominate someone who will unify the Republicans, kind of like Bill Clinton did in 2000.
The war against the Islamofascists seems to be a unifying factor for the two major factions in the Republican party. However, the expansion of government under Republican rule has really angered the libertarians, and the recent approval of the "morning after" pill has infuriated the social conservatives, who also are not happy about the growth of illegal immigration.
What issues are most important to you? Which ones are you willing to compromise on? To me, far and away the most important issue is our security. If we are defeated by the fascists, we will not have any of those other things we hold dear. If the Democrats achieve victory in the House and Senate in 2006, will they undercut the President's efforts to upgrade the security of our country? Senator Lieberman's defeat in the Connecticut Democrat primary would seem to be an indication that the answer to that question would be in the affirmative.
What compromises will each of these two major factions be willing to make in order to keep the party in the majority? Maybe the Democrats will nominate someone who will unify the Republicans, kind of like Bill Clinton did in 2000.
The war against the Islamofascists seems to be a unifying factor for the two major factions in the Republican party. However, the expansion of government under Republican rule has really angered the libertarians, and the recent approval of the "morning after" pill has infuriated the social conservatives, who also are not happy about the growth of illegal immigration.
What issues are most important to you? Which ones are you willing to compromise on? To me, far and away the most important issue is our security. If we are defeated by the fascists, we will not have any of those other things we hold dear. If the Democrats achieve victory in the House and Senate in 2006, will they undercut the President's efforts to upgrade the security of our country? Senator Lieberman's defeat in the Connecticut Democrat primary would seem to be an indication that the answer to that question would be in the affirmative.
Wednesday, September 06, 2006
Home Schooling Gems

I must remember to post these gems as they occur.
Teacher to kindergartener son: Do you know what an author is? "Yes! You sit down at the computer and type in the words on your blog!"
Two-year-old: "Daddy, I've got a bloody nose on my knee!"
Today we have three extra kids here from another homeschooling family, making a grand total of eleven children. I am sure the neighbors will appreciate the extra joyful noise! The two children missing from the picture are our precious ten and eleven month-old foster babies. One has been with us since March and the other since June (her second time in our home: in February her mother broke the baby's leg, and she was with us for just a few days before being placed with a relative. That did not work out).
Monday, September 04, 2006
Stop Apologizing! You Will Never Please the Professional Victims and Their Cohorts in the Old Media!
Just as in Virginia with Senator Allen, Colorado Democrats and their allies in the Denver Post are working over Bob Beauprez in his campaign to become Colorado's governor. Beauprez's gaffe was that he said the abortion rate among black Americans is as high as 70%. According to David Harsanyi, the Guttmacher Institute puts the figure at 43% for 2002. Is any so-called leader of Colorado blacks saying anything about this appalling statistic? No, the "leaders" quoted by the Post are only talking about Beauprez hurting their feelings.
The Post writers, with Harsanyi being the exception, are also constantly referring to a gaffe made by Beauprez's running mate, a former child protection worker and County Commisioner in Grand Junction. She compared gay marriage with bestiality, as the journalists remind us every day. The Denver Post will endorse the Democrat. That is as sure a bet as anyone could ever make. So Mr. Beauprez and his running mate can ignore the daily attacks, stop apologizing, and provide some moral leadership by actually taking clear stands on issues the voters are concerned about!
Update: Ben DeGrow has more information about the role of the Denver Post in helping the Democrats.
The Post writers, with Harsanyi being the exception, are also constantly referring to a gaffe made by Beauprez's running mate, a former child protection worker and County Commisioner in Grand Junction. She compared gay marriage with bestiality, as the journalists remind us every day. The Denver Post will endorse the Democrat. That is as sure a bet as anyone could ever make. So Mr. Beauprez and his running mate can ignore the daily attacks, stop apologizing, and provide some moral leadership by actually taking clear stands on issues the voters are concerned about!
Update: Ben DeGrow has more information about the role of the Denver Post in helping the Democrats.
Are Christians Allowed to Defend Themselves?
We attend church regularly. There are many things we like about it. It is a racially integrated congregation. There is a loving spirit, and much praise is given to God. The music is superb.
But I am frustrated. Here we are in a world in which Islamofascists want to kill everyone who does not submit to their fascist ideology, and for five years now, not a word about it from the pulpit. We are told to be compassionate, to turn the other cheek. And let them incinerate our children? No thanks!
But I am frustrated. Here we are in a world in which Islamofascists want to kill everyone who does not submit to their fascist ideology, and for five years now, not a word about it from the pulpit. We are told to be compassionate, to turn the other cheek. And let them incinerate our children? No thanks!
2008 Will Shake Up Both Political Parties
Michael Barone notes that 2008 will be the first time in eighty years that a sitting president or vice president will not be running for president. More importantly, the front runners of both parties have lots of strong opposition within their respective parties. Right now the front runners are Giuliani and McCain for the Republicans and Bill Clinton's wife for the Democrats. One reason these three have risen to the top is that they have all demonstrated that they can handle crises and endure difficult times. Read the whole thing here.
I would add that the crises Giuliani and McCain handled were not of their own making. The crises Mrs. Clinton faced were the result of her own choices.
I would add that the crises Giuliani and McCain handled were not of their own making. The crises Mrs. Clinton faced were the result of her own choices.
Sunday, September 03, 2006
Should Airport Screeners Focus on Finding Terrorists or Potential Weapons?
Snarky Bastards highlights a recent column from the New York Post by Llana Freeman. It is full of good ideas about how to improve airport screening. Instead of just screening things, isn't it about time we screen individuals? According to Apollo in the comments section, a rollout is already planned to do just that.
Thursday, August 31, 2006
More on Abused Children Who Become Abusers Themselves
In my most recent post I wrote about the abused child who became an abuser. When my wife and I decided to become foster parents, we opened our home to children of any age. Now we take only babies. Why? Because the odds are much higher that abused children older than a few months will themselves be abusers. We will no longer expose our own children to abuse.
Let me tell you about one of our experiences. We took in a sibling group which included a six-year-old girl, a five-year-old boy, and a three-year-old girl. The six-year-old girl molested our four-year-old son and her own sister. We filed a report, in hopes that we could get appropriate treatment for the little molestor. The caseworker assigned to investigate called us on her cell phone to get directions to our house, and oh, by the way, informed us that we were the focus of her investigation, and if she did not like what she saw, she would close us down as foster parents! We survived that investigation, and the girl never got treatment specific to her offense. All she got was a naive graduate student therapist who spent the entire time trying to get this little manipulator to like her!
The boy was the angriest little human being I think I have ever known. The mother was an alcoholic, who was utterly undependable. The fathers finally got custody of the children.
Let me tell you about one of our experiences. We took in a sibling group which included a six-year-old girl, a five-year-old boy, and a three-year-old girl. The six-year-old girl molested our four-year-old son and her own sister. We filed a report, in hopes that we could get appropriate treatment for the little molestor. The caseworker assigned to investigate called us on her cell phone to get directions to our house, and oh, by the way, informed us that we were the focus of her investigation, and if she did not like what she saw, she would close us down as foster parents! We survived that investigation, and the girl never got treatment specific to her offense. All she got was a naive graduate student therapist who spent the entire time trying to get this little manipulator to like her!
The boy was the angriest little human being I think I have ever known. The mother was an alcoholic, who was utterly undependable. The fathers finally got custody of the children.
Wednesday, August 30, 2006
A Sad Story
Today I got a phone call from a wonderful woman who, with her husband, adopted a ten-year-old child when I was a child protection worker. This particular child had been repeatedly raped in her first six years by her father, who is serving a sixteen year sentence in prison. When they adopted her they knew she had a history of molesting other children, but they thought they could tough love her into making good choices.
Unfortunately, the child's identity is so mixed up with the twisted sexual components, that she has never progressed beyond that in her own life. She also has became a sex addict, a molestor of little children, a chronic liar, and a constant and skillful manipulator.
The adoptive parents are now trying to gain custody of this girl's two-year-old son, whom they have raised since his birth. The girl is now a twenty-two-year-old woman. She abducted her child last weekend, and the police returned the child to her adoptive parents, who have never given up on her, but also have never been able to save her from herself. She now lives with two men who are here illegally from Mexico, and is threatening to take her child to Mexico. She has also made threats to do harm to the adoptive parents, who have endured incredible suffering financially and emotionally. She has been fired from twelve jobs, almost always because of stealing from her employers. Welfare set her and her son up in a beautiful two bedroom apartment, free day care, and financial assistance, all of which she blew on cocaine, marijuana, and meth. She will probably get free legal assistance in this custody fight, even though the adoptive parents have to pay big bucks for their attorney, because they are not yet indigent.
Unfortunately, the child's identity is so mixed up with the twisted sexual components, that she has never progressed beyond that in her own life. She also has became a sex addict, a molestor of little children, a chronic liar, and a constant and skillful manipulator.
The adoptive parents are now trying to gain custody of this girl's two-year-old son, whom they have raised since his birth. The girl is now a twenty-two-year-old woman. She abducted her child last weekend, and the police returned the child to her adoptive parents, who have never given up on her, but also have never been able to save her from herself. She now lives with two men who are here illegally from Mexico, and is threatening to take her child to Mexico. She has also made threats to do harm to the adoptive parents, who have endured incredible suffering financially and emotionally. She has been fired from twelve jobs, almost always because of stealing from her employers. Welfare set her and her son up in a beautiful two bedroom apartment, free day care, and financial assistance, all of which she blew on cocaine, marijuana, and meth. She will probably get free legal assistance in this custody fight, even though the adoptive parents have to pay big bucks for their attorney, because they are not yet indigent.
The Incurious Old Media
Again today Anchoress is writing about a subject that I have been thinking about. This morning on Peter Boyles' radio talk show, the guest was award-winning television investigative news reporter John Ferrugia. Peter was congratulating Mr. Ferrugia on his "pit bull" questioning of Boulder D.A. Mary Lacy in yesterday's "news" conference. However, when Peter tried to hand-feed Ferrugia some relevant internet sources about University of Colorado journalism professor Michael Tracy, Mr. Ferrugia became upset. There is a real prejudice on the part of many in main stream media toward internet sources. As a result, someone like Mr. Boyles, who will go anywhere to find truth, is far ahead of others in the media in his knowledge of the Jon Benet Ramsey murder case. A closed mind is a terrible waste!
Monday, August 28, 2006
More Wisdom From The Anchoress
The Anchoress has posted an important piece challenging both the left and the right to guard against fascistic tendencies in their group think. "The irony is this: fascism can only live in a group, and it can only be defeated by the individual. In order to shrivel the first buds of fascism in our social and political institutions, we need to look inward - each of us, alone - and strike at its roots within ourselves."
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