Who are more premeditative, men, or women?

Vox has this advice for men:

There are occasionally times in a man's life when he finds himself wondering if an unpleasant incident with a woman was intentional or not. While there are certainly accidents, as a general rule, women tend to operate in a much more premeditated manner than most men do. So, when in doubt, assume that the unpleasantries were planned.

This is something that men have difficulty understanding; many women won't even hesitate to destroy their marriages and their families if that is what their emotional imperative requires at the moment.

A commenter named "trust" added that the primary vice of men is lust, while the primary vice of women is envy.

What has been your experience?

I don't know what I think about this whole manosphere aspect of the blogosphere. Sometimes they make observations that seem eye-opening to me. Other times they seem to be casting men as victims, something they abhore when done by women.