So — Braveheart, Beautiful Girl, quiet and lovely in a loud world — before you pack up and head out this summer to do good work in the world, this is the thing… maybe everything boils down to a handful of things?Read more here.
Can I hand you handful of Brave and Beautiful Things for your every day?
Parents aren’t supposed to be the loud police voice in your head — but the gentle pastor at your side.
It’s always there — if you always listen for that quiet, gentle voice of Grace on the inside: You don’t have to get it perfect — you just have to get back up and keep going.
So maybe yeah, think of all this as a gentle note to tuck in your back pocket — and that this getting up every day and listening for His Voice, that’s Number One of the handful of brave and beautiful things for your every day:
Number One: Fall in love with the One who is The Way — and the way you’re supposed to go will follow…. as you follow Him.
You’ve got to want to be one with Him — more than you want to be a Someone.
You’ve got to want to serve more than you want to be seen, you’ve got to care more than you want to be comfortable, you’ve got to want to give more than you want to get.
You’ve got to want His approval more than all the other things that will prove to be worthless.
Number Two: Taste the grittiness of work — or you won’t ever taste success.
Every day you can get up and get scared — or you can get up and get yourself ready.
Nothing erases stress quite like preparation.
Bury all your nagging fears in your faithful work — or your fears will bury you in nagging doubts.
Promise yourself you’ll remember this because it will effect your joy: Be entirely engaged in the process of your work, and be entirely disengaged in outcome of your work. You can’t determine outcome — but you can determine to come and put in everything you have.
Let your joy always be in doing the work — not in the outcome of the work. The journey not only matters more than the destination — the journey actually becomes the destination.
Success is always showing up and bending down. Full stop.
Number Three: Don’t love your present self more than you love your future self.
...Though everywhere tells you the point of living is to avoid suffering — please: Always embrace the struggle:
You know there’s no way around pain — there’s always either the pain of disappointment or the pain of discipline.
And don’t ever, ever, ever be concerned with failing — only be concerned about failing to keep on going.
Get up every day and just do that: Volunteer to be a Giver. Never stop looking for a way to be the Giver. The world’s going around with a big sign: Wanted: GIVERS. (Sorry — The world already has enough takers.)
Be a Giver — and you will get the most.
People may forget what you did or didn’t do — but they won’t forget how you made them feel. Hearts have the longest memories. This is what makes you love people people and love life and never be intimidated in any setting: Lean in and make eye contact and simply listen to hearts.
Listening is a revolutionary act of liberation — it will liberate you from the prison of your prejudices and free you to love large.
It doesn’t matter if you have some big title — what matters is that you have a big heart. A big heart will outshine a big title every time.
Number 5: Watch your fingers so your heart can care.
Maybe the most important part of your body to control is your index finger — because it’s most like the devil: It most wants to point and prosecute.
At all costs — don’t be a finger pointer… and avoid joining packs of finger-pointers — who point and blame peers and parents and circumstances and society and somebody else.
The world doesn’t need any more finger-pointers.
It needs more people to honestly point out their own sins — and humbly point up to everyone’s Savior.
The world doesn’t need more loud people who think they have it all right — it needs more compassionate people to sit down and listen long enough to quietly realize they had some of it wrong.
The world needs people whose sacrificial giving is loudest and largest thing about them. People who quietly weep with the wounded and listen to the hurting and generously serve the Other — because that’s what it means to genuinely love one another: not to love people just like you, but to Love the Other.
The Givers and the Listeners and the Lovers — we can be part of His beautiful healing of the world….
So when you get to the end of the day, when you get down far down that road your on, when you get to wondering what it’s all about that — I don’t know, maybe it’s just this handful of 5 Brave and Beautiful Things I wanted to tuck in your back pocket in a world that’s hurting everywhere?
And maybe I just wanted to look you long in the eyes and memorize this in the midst of everything: Trust that Grace will always meet you.
Believe that when God made the universe, that He breathed Grace as the air of the universe.
When you believe that the earth’s atmosphere is actually Grace:
You aren’t afraid of people or asking questions or risking big or laughing loud or believing the best or believing in beauty or loving across fences or walking up to people and taking off your mask and making every step you take into a leap of faith.
Please, always: Believe that Grace will always, always, always meet you.
Because Grace has a name. And He always meets you. In everything, through everything, in spite of anything.
Grace has a name — and He always, always meets you.
So go on, keep going on, Braveheart — you are loved more than you know, liked more than you can imagine, and are stronger than you dreamed…. so: Give love. And live large — And love larger.
You can’t even begin to imagine how there’s always amazing grace up ahead.
This blog is looking for wisdom, to have and to share. It is also looking for other rare character traits like good humor, courage, and honor. It is not an easy road, because all of us fall short. But God is love, forgiveness and grace. Those who believe in Him and repent of their sins have the promise of His Holy Spirit to guide us and show us the Way.
Wednesday, July 06, 2016
Amazing grace up ahead!
At A Holy Experience Ann Voskamp figuratively tucks a note in her daughter's back pocket with some gentle reminders, as she waves goodbye to her daughter embarking on her adult life.
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